How to Recognize Red Flags
A relationship becomes unhealthy when one person tries to control their partner on purpose, in a hurtful way. While abuse often happens as a pattern of controlling behavior, a single episode of abuse or red flag is still a cause for concern.
Signs that a that a relationship may be abusive:
- Giving up things that are important
- Isolation from friends
- Changes in appearance, weight, grades or behavior; these could be signs of depression, which can be an indicator of abuse
- Unexplainable injuries or explanations for injuries that don’t make sense
- Afraid of partner or fearful of making partner angry
- Preoccupied with pleasing partner
- Apologizes for partner’s behavior
- Gives excuses to questions about their relationship, such as “everything is under control” or “it’s not your problem”
Signs that a dating partner may be abusive:
- Loses temper, breaks or hits things
- Monitors partners activities through cell phone, computer or social media
- Argues or fights with other people
- Extreme jealousy and insecurity
- Demanding to know whom their partner is with and where their partner has been
- Calls their partner names or puts down their partner in front of other people
TAKE ACTION
If you think you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship – whether physical, emotional or sexual – and you need help, you should contact a Green Flags pro.
